Welcome back for part two of some small pointers for a successful date and some nasties to look out for. Just a reminder, that these posts are only a small portion of what is to come once you contact Country Contacts Australasia and our professional councillors. If you are ready to settle and are looking then it is time to call now.
Some more basic to commence a country romance:
Be creative and memorable to ensure a second date
Not all of us are lucky enough to begin a romance on the first date, so to ensure that you get a second one you need to be different. This is such a basic thing yet overlooked by so many guys who jump on the cliché bandwagon. Some examples of cliché activities are movies, going to the pub or a dinner only. If you are going to surprise her then do these activities but add a twist, for example if you are going to the movies you should dress up in a pirate suit if you are watching a pirate movie. This will demonstrate to her that you have a sense of humour as well as you have put in effort for the date.
Flowers? Chocolate?
Do flowers matter? What about chocolate? The answer is no. It is nice, but you don’t want to be seen just as another guy on a date. Like above be memorable and different. If you already know some background information about her then use it to your advantage. For example, if you know she likes wearing high heels, buy her a pair of thongs.
Don’t be Boring
If you ever have an awkward moment she will definitely pick it up, this is what I call the death of romance. You should first talk about an interesting topic and then ask her for her opinion or input. For example if you start talking about movies, state what movies you like and ask what she thinks and maybe squeeze in what her favour ate movie is. The most important thing is not to stay on one topic for too long, you need to continuously change and adapt to the conversation. One topic will hopefully lead onto another.
Now the juicy stuff. The things you need to look out for:
Annoying Laughs
First you need to make her laugh. Once you have her smiling from ear to ear you need to carefully listen to her laugh. You need to ask yourself is this a nice laugh? Now how to determine if it is an annoying laugh or a nice one:
- Does she snort when she is trying to breathe?
- Is it high pitched?
- Does it sound fake?
- Is she changing colours?
These are just some obvious signs that her laugh will kill your romance in the future.
Guys, these are just some basic tips, it doesn’t apply to all dates but it is a good start. If you want to take away the hassle of looking for someone give us a call and we will find someone who fit your profile to ensure a life long romance.